~ MEETING THE ONE CD PROGRAM by CHRISTIAN CARTERS~ To STOP Making The Dating Mistakes That Drive Good Men Start Price USD 149.85 Current Price USD 149.85 Time Left - Bid Count 0 Buy It Now Price - Reserve Price - Start Time Wednesday, November 19, 2008 End Time Wednesday, November 26, 2008 Location Santa Monica, California See more about '~ MEETING THE ONE CD PROGRAM by CHRISTIAN CARTERS~' Description   If You’ve Gone From Wondering WHEN You Will Finally Meet The Right Man And Fall In Love… To Asking WHY There Aren’t Any Good Men Out There And Feeling Scared That You Might NEVER Meet The Right Man For You… Then It’s Time For You To STOP Making The Dating Mistakes That Drive Good Men Away And Keep Too Many Good Women Like You Single And “Loveless” Forever… Get Ready To Learn Exactly What To Do And Say With Men To Not Only Identify The Right Man For You And Transform First Meetings And “Dates” Into Amazing Connections… But Quickly Have A Man Grow With You From “Hello” To “I Love You” In No Time Flat Dear Friend,Can you tell me... why in the world would a great woman not have a great man who wants to be with her?It just doesn’t make sense, does it?Over the last few years of helping women to better understand men and have more successful relationships, I can’t tell you how many times this question has come up…And I’m constantly amazed by how many INCREDIBLE WOMEN I meet who are unnecessarily sitting at home alone.But now… FINALLY… I am pleased to tell you that after years of seeing how so many incredible women are unable to find great men who love them for who they REALLY ARE, at long last I have an answer.I’m very excited about what I’ve discovered, and I can’t wait to share my answer with you for 3 reasons: I’ve discovered that there is just one dangerous yet easy to fix mistake that is single-handedly responsible for why most great women do NOT have a great man in their life Nearly EVERY woman I’ve shared this with has told me that hearing this was the one thing that really made everything come together for them... and that this information allowed them to take their love lives to a level of happiness and excitement HIGHER than they ever thought possible... If YOU are frustrated with men and dating and the way your love life is now, I am 100% CERTAIN that what I am about to tell you will not only change the way you think about men and dating forever... but give you the POWER to change your current situation faster and more effectively than anything else you could possibly do, period. Now, I can’t wait to share the answer I’ve found with you and let you put it to work in your own life... But let me first give you a quick “primer” on how and where this answer came to me… and why it allowed me to see what’s going on for most women with men and dating so clearly…One thing I’ve been paying more attention to in my life lately is HOW WE AS PEOPLE CAN HEAL. For me, thinking about all this was prompted by some recent health concerns of my own that have turned out to be a blessing in disguise.To make a long story short… a while ago I started thinking about how in more of our “Western Medicine”, the focus of the treatment you receive is often about alleviating the SYMPTOMS you’re experiencing.And while this helps you FEEL BETTER in the short term by clearing your immediate problems… the long term effects aren’t too long-lasting.On the other hand… more of the “Eastern” approach to health and healing places a focus on the body as an entire system that’s “interconnected”. And from this perspective SYMPTOMS aren’t a focus of concern in the healing process. Instead, a focus is put on identifying and treating the UNDERLYING CAUSE of the symptoms.As I sat and thought about this, it started to become clear to me how this whole approach to medicine and to healing not only related to my life… but I started to see some PROFOUND TRUTHS that related to what most women experience with men, love, dating, and relationships...Suddenly everything became CRYSTAL CLEAR to me about what was going on at a deeper level – most women are spending their precious time and energy focusing on trying to “fix” all the symptoms in their love life… which of course is leading them nowhere, and keeping them from finding and “healing” the ROOT CAUSE of it all.The more I thought about this, the more I started to see a fascinating process happening for most of the single women around me… and a new reality came into clear view. My Own Personal “Awakening”… And How It Can Transform YOUR Relationship I want you to go ahead and read through the following list of “symptoms” below… and I want you to see if any of these are CONSISTENT recurrences in your love life. (Note: If any of them are, then I have some very good news for you which I’ll tell you in a minute)Symptom #1: Choosing The WRONG Men… Over And Over And OverDo you find yourself meeting and maybe even falling for the same type of WRONG men for you, over and over?Maybe you even got a gut feeling when you meet a guy that he will end up treating you badly... but you find yourself going for him anyways? Or… do you find yourself having lots of short relationships that seem like they could work out... but then end up going nowhere? It’s not uncommon for a woman to get stuck in a “cycle” of dating the wrong types of men for her over and over and over… and THIS MISTAKE is the main reason why.What is uncommon is for that woman to BREAK that cycle… but doing this is a “must” if she ever wants to meet the RIGHT man and develop a relationship that will last.Symptom #2: Finding That Men Fail To Recognize That You’re A GREAT CATCHHave you ever met a guy that seemed like he was perfect for you... but he just didn’t seem to feel the same way about you?Maybe you’ve had an experience in which a guy you really liked suddenly lost interest in you after several dates, or even after being intimate with you… and you could never understand why.In these situations I’ve found that all the “specifics” of your story, and the little things said and done aren’t nearly as significant as this basic fact:The man you were with just didn’t see you as the kind of SPECIAL woman he should get serious with.If you want to capture a man’s heart, it’s critical that he doesn’t see you as “just another girl”. If he thinks of you as just another girl, a man will subtly start thinking that he could be happier or better off being single… or “playing the field”. Or he might even end up choosing a “lesser woman” than you to be with who doesn’t have all the amazing qualities of a “real woman” that you have. But he still sees her as that special woman anyhow, and not you.Symptom #3: Finding That The “Dating Stage” Isn’t Fun Or EnjoyableDo you get frustrated with the whole “dating” process and wish you could just SKIP IT and be in a loving, caring relationship without all of the “hassle” and uncertainty?We all would love to jump right into a deep, connected relationship with someone we care about… but unfortunately this doesn’t really work in the real world.If you don’t lay down a strong FOUNDATION with a man during the early stages, and find and talk about all the things you both need to know about each other BEFORE things take off… then the relationship you build with him will rest on a weak and uncertain foundation.And it’s then that what you have between you and a man is guaranteed to become unstable and fall apart once a little conflict, trouble or tension comes along.Symptom #4: Finding That Men See You As “Needy” Or “Clingy”… Even When You’re NotHave you ever had a guy pull away because you came off as “needy” or “clingy”... even though that is NOT who you really are at all?What’s really sad is that when a man feels this way about a woman, he almost NEVER tells her… so she gets stuck wondering what went wrong, but never discovers his REAL reason for pulling away.It’s terribly frustrating for most women who have their life together when they know that they weren’t really being “needy” – it was just the way that the man PERCEIVED things.But the damage is done…Symptom #5: Finding That It Never Works Out With The One You REALLY LikeIt happens to the best of us. When we really like someone, we tend to act a little bit differently… Sometimes this causes women to put on a front without even trying… or to try a little too hard, or love a little too intensely… which can get in the way of a guy seeing the REAL YOU.Other times it can cause you to come on a little too strong… and lead a man to MISTAKE your signs of love, interest, and desire to be with him for INSECURITY. Not good. Why These Problems And Frustrations Will KEEP ON OccurringIn Your Love Life… And How To Easily Address Them All… What I’ve done here is listed just a few of the main problems women experience over and over again in their love lives. The truth is, each one of these problems all have something in common:Every one of these problems is a SYMPTOM that is caused by a MUCH BIGGER problem.And if that one problem or root cause is addressed, then all of these “symptoms” will instantly disappear.Yes, you read that right. If you eliminate the one BIG problem, you will quickly find that: The man you feel is a great partner for you, will see YOU as his equal… and as the quality woman he’s been waiting for The early stages with a man will become fun and exciting for you AND for him… and it will pave the way for a loving, lasting relationship… instead of blow ups, surprises, arguments, and frustration Your man will LOOK FORWARD to spending time with you, and thinks about you when you’re not around You’ll be able to capture the heart of a man who is not only “up to your standards”, but EXACTLY what you want and who you deserve I’m guessing this sounds like a lot more fun than what you might have experienced in the past with a man, right?But on the other hand, if you keep on making this mistake of not identifying and addressing this one problem, you will find that: You’ll keep choosing all the wrong men You’ll have an impossible time identifying the right men, even when he’s right in front of you A man will quickly lose interest in you, even after several dates or being intimate with you A man will see you as “needy”, even if you’re not Your efforts to talk and connect with a man will only seem to turn him off more and keep him from ever wanting a real relationship with you You will feel that men have all of the power in your relationships, and you have none A man will often make you feel emotionally uncertain or “out of control”, and you won’t be able to help yourself A man won’t see you as “relationship material” and not want anything more than to casually date you I think you can see just how dangerous not finding and addressing this problem for yourself really is. So now let’s talk about WHAT this problem actually is… and how to eliminate it… The Single WORST ThingYou Can Do When MeetingAnd Getting To Know A Man… Before I tell you exactly what this problem is, I’d like to share a story with you that will help you to better understand it… Did you know that among all of the animals that live in the rainforest, one particular animal that is among the fastest and most elusive is also the EASIEST to catch?Spider monkeys are born with a little personality flaw that allows a hunter to easily trap it without causing the monkey any physical harm… and without using a cage or a net.All a hunter needs to do to catch one of these animals is to carve a hole in a trunk of a tree that is just wide enough for the spider monkey to fit his hand inside… then place a nut in the bottom.When the monkey finds the nut inside, he will reach in to grab it. But unfortunately for the monkey, his closed fist is just a little too large to remove from the hole without letting go of his precious snack.And what’s AMAZING, insane, and humorous is that once the monkey grabs that nut, he WILL NOT LET GO. The hunter can walk right up to him and kill him… and the monkey will die with it’s arm in the hole and the nut in his hand. FASCINATING. Sorry to get a little “dark” for a second there… but it’s an important point to understand.So let me ask you…Have you ever had any friends who acted in a similar way when it came to a particular man? Maybe as soon as this man came into their life, she got just a little too into him… and he started to BECOME her life?And has this ever happened to you?Maybe you didn’t immediately begin revolving your whole world around a man you were dating… but you did find that you were thinking about the two of you A LOT… and that it somehow came across in your actions in ways that only hurt you…Maybe you began worrying about what he thought about you and what he was doing… started processing his every action and trying to figure out the meaning… and you found yourself getting frustrated with him over things he would do and say…For days and weeks you played out a RELATIONSHIP IN YOUR HEAD… thinking about everything that was going on. A relationship that became serious, deep, and committed in your mind… but all this was happening LONG BEFORE your relationship had actually reached that level in reality. If this sounds familiar, then you were guilty of the deadly mistake I call… The “Instant Relationship” – The Surefire Way To Ruin Things With A Man After several years now of helping women to better understand and communicate with men, I’ve discovered this mistake to be the single biggest cause of the frustration and disappointment many women experience in their dating lives. I call this mistake the “Instant Relationship”.It’s defined as this:The “Instant Relationship”: A hard-wired behavior triggered by ATTRACTION that has you thinking and acting as though you have a relationship with a man before you’ve developed one.It starts at “Hello”… when you meet a great guy and begin an “Unconscious Commitment” in your mind for mutual honesty and exclusivity between you. Of course, this is completely different than CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSING A MAN after getting to know him better… and it has 3 very serious consequences: The unconscious commitment to a serious relationship made at the beginning can cause you to overlook any of his flaws as they come up – even things that would normally send you running – causing you to end up with the WRONG man for you Because it is so BUILT UP in your mind, you will act and behave differently with this man… and likely scare him away by coming on too strong, looking “too interested”, or coming off as NEEDY or CLINGY Because an attractive man who is a great catch is so used to this happening with the women he dates, it causes him to see you as “just another girl” that he doesn’t mind losing Of course, the more deeply you are attracted to a man, or the more you think about him and “fill in the blanks” in the beginning, the deeper your Instant Relationship response will be.Remember the story I told you about the spider monkey? When you do this to a man it makes him man feel like he is the “nut” that you are essentially SMOTHERING with your hand… and even if your Instant Relationship responses AREN’T too deep or intense, just the slightest indication that you are thinking this way is more than enough to freak a man out and send him running.Here’s the thing you really need to know…The “Instant Relationship” can be as unattractive and “gross” to a man as it is for a man you’ve JUST MET to expect to have sex with you… try and CONVINCE YOU to do so, then act hurt or upset when you don’t want to.Seriously. Think about that for a second…But perhaps worst of all… the Instant Relationship takes away ALL THE FUN of getting to know someone and building a strong FOUNDATION for a successful relationship… because there is just too much pressure, and a man will feel and sense this on an unconscious level and withdraw from you.Unfortunately many, MANY women make this mistake with men without ever realizing it or consciously knowing it. When we meet someone we like, it’s easy for our “biology” to take over and make us do stupid things. The good news is that it isn’t all that hard to STOP making this mistake once you learn to RECOGNIZE when you are doing things that say “Instant Relationship” and push a good man away… and I want to show you how to do just that – STOP the root causes of the negative symptoms in your love life… forever.I also want to show you what to do INSTEAD (what to say and do) to guarantee that you actually end up in the relationship you want with the man you want… and of course have him recognize what a great catch that YOU are as well. The 2nd Piece Of The Puzzle… Have you ever worried that maybe you’ll just have to “settle” for a guy that is “pretty good” for you, because the RIGHT MAN for you just doesn’t exist?Or do you ever feel like the happiness and love you feel is just up to FATE... and that there is nothing that you can personally do about it?If so, I’m willing to bet that there is a simple reason for why you’re making poor choices or “settling”:It’s because YOU haven’t DONE ANYTHING about changing things FOR YOURSELF!In order to have a relationship with the RIGHT man, you of course need to MEET HIM first. So… if you find that you hardly ever meet men who you consider to be QUALITY MEN, then DUH!It’s crucial that you take matters into your own hands and make something happen. (If you really want the life you think or dream of) By the way, the simple fact that you are reading this right now is a great start. And now I’d like to show you how to EMPOWER YOURSELF to take it to the next level…A Secret About Single, Attractive Men…Let’s take a look for a second inside the mind of a single, attractive, HIGH QUALITY man. Here’s one secret about him:This man is VERY frustrated.He keeps running into the same type of women over and over… women he has no interest in, then women who he has a little bit of interest in or A LOT of interest in who then pull the “Instant Relationship” stuff on him after a few days or weeks and FREAK HIM OUT.He is just as frustrated with women and the whole “meeting and dating” thing as you are with men and dating. Maybe even more…The point is, he has the exact same problem you do - finding someone who he feels is a real CATCH. I’m sure you’ve imagined conversations with the right man in which you tell him how much better he is than all the other men out there… because you really FEEL that way.Well guess what? A man would love to do the same with the right woman who he really feels this way with. The bottom line:This man is out there… and HE WANTS TO MEET YOU.Unfortunately, lots of women unconsciously make the choice to continue waiting around for a man to FIND THEM. And I don’t need to tell you that for lots of good women it NEVER EVER DOES HAPPEN… and many of their best years are wasted waiting around for “Mr. Right”. Now… let’s zoom in and look at this on a more “situational” level…If you were out and about and happened to cross paths with a guy who would be perfect for you, do you feel that he would be the type of guy that would immediately approach you and start a conversation? (“pick up on you”)Well, you would hope so, right?But here’s the problem…Think about how many guys have approached you in your life that have COMPLETELY turned you off…I’m guessing that you and your friends have made fun of some of these guys. And I’m also guessing that they deserved it!You and your friends are not alone. These days the media often portrays men that “hit on” women as “lounge lizards” and “creeps”… and it can easily cause a man to think that if he were to approach you in public, you would AUTOMATICALLY put him in the same category as these guys before he even opened his mouth.Here’s something else to think about…I’m fortunate in the fact that I have some really amazing friends. I know a lot of men who are very successful in many different aspects of life… guys that ANY woman would consider to be great relationship or even husband material.I’ve spent time hanging out with these guys in casual settings and also “hitting the town”. When I would go to bars or nightclubs with these guys… actually… come to think of it – malls, grocery stores, whatever… some of them would approach women that they wanted to meet.Some of them would approach A LOT of women. These guys weren’t the scummy “lounge lizard” guys you see in the media… they were just naturally friendly and outgoing. (I’ll admit I have known a few “scummy” guys in my time too!)But the point is… some of the guys I’ve known that I feel are the BEST catches (also verified by the fact that they attract amazing people into their lives, including women)… these guys WEREN’T the type of guys that would approach a woman “cold” to ask her out. No way.They were more into talking to their friends and just relaxing with present company. And here’s something else to think about:Another BIG REASON why ultra-desirable men don’t approach women is because they don’t feel the desperate need to meet women that many other guys feel… because they ALREADY HAVE PLENTY OF WOMEN IN THEIR LIVES TO CHOOSE FROM!That’s right. There are already a lot of great women who have met this man and want his time and attention.Great men meet women EVERYWHERE - through their social circles, through business, other women in relationships who want to set them up, etc. Great men usually meet A LOT of women.Now, should this discourage you? Of course not.But know this:Attractive men are RARE. And because of this, they are in demand.And I don’t need to tell you that YOUR IDEAL MAN IS RARE. And in demand.After all, you wouldn’t want some loser off the street that no other woman wanted, would you?Probably not.My point is this:If this man were to walk by you tomorrow at the grocery store, would you know how to meet him? And how would you instantly let him know that YOU are a great catch as well, in the few short moments you might have while he’s standing there next to you?If you don’t know any of this, or your uncertain and lack CONFIDENCE… then it is VERY IMPORTANT that you start. And I’d like to show you how… Let’s Sum It All Up… Meeting the one for you comes down to 2 things: A single attractive man has a lot of options - and if you don't have your act together, and you don't know how to meet him… then show him that you're both fun AND "relationship material" at the same time... then you're going to be put in a category in his mind that will never allow him to see you as the kind of woman he'll fall for and want to stay with. A single and attractive man sees a TON of weird, unusual, insecure, and crazy behavior from women. And not just from women who are obviously immature and insecure... but from women that he has dated who seemed like great women and ARE great women… but then came unraveled with him and started acting needy. And whether you like it or not, if a man senses any of this same kind of stuff inside you, then he'll quickly disqualify you and never think of you as a woman he could BE WITH... even if he keeps up your “physical relationship” and keeps “dating” you. Now, let’s talk about how to use this new information to MEET and ATTRACT the right man for you… Your Roadmap For Meeting And Attracting Mr. Right… If you’re tired of being single and not spending your life with a high quality man who DESERVES YOU… then I have some exciting news for you…I just put the finishing touches on a brand new program called Meeting The One.The entire focus of this program is to show you exactly how to approach and MEET THE RIGHT MAN, attract him and draw him close to you... and have him wanting more.I’ve created some other programs that have focused on important aspects of dating and relationships… and about men… but until now I hadn’t created a program that was all about helping you, a single woman, really “get” what dating is all about with men… and how to start from scratch meeting a man, getting the conversation started, and moving ahead with each other.This program is filled with more of the “What do I say when he does this?” kind of hands-on material than any of my other programs when it comes to meeting men, starting conversations, and getting a relationship underway from the very first encounter. A New Level of PERSONAL EMPOWERMENT In Your Love Life... Perhaps the most important thing you stand to gain here is a new sense of EMPOWERMENT to create the love life for yourself that YOU want... and to stop waiting around for the right man to come along and magically make it all work.I promise you that this program will show you how men approach dating and relationships differently from women... and how by understanding where HIS head is at you can take control of your dating destiny... so you are ultimately the one in control of the end result.In the beginning of this program, you’re going to learn all about the “inner game” of finding and connecting with the right man, and important foundation concepts for creating a great relationship with a man from the very very start. (first meeting or first date)I’m going to show you how to attract the right man proactively, not try and make things work reactively.We’re going to talk about fear and anxiety that can come up inside you that gets in your way... and the reality of what happens when you actually meet a great guy and you’re faced with the challenges and uncertainty that he throws at you just by being who he is.Of course, we’re also going to get into the actual mindsets and the techniques (how-to’s) to help you attract the interest of the right man in any situation... and you’re going to get all of the specifics of “what do I do?” from the first conversation, to your first “date”, to him saying “I love you”… and everything in between.I’ve noticed that one of the most challenging things for a woman is simply getting a man to see the best of WHO YOU REALLY ARE... and this program will show you how to do that quickly... so that a man knows exactly how unique and special you are from the moment you meet. You’ll also learn how to quickly and clearly identify the WRONG MEN... and keep you from wasting your time and energy on someone that isn’t the absolute BEST match for you. I’ll also show you how to avoid the common but little-known mindsets, approaches and mistakes that can push the right guys away throughout the entire “dating process”.When you’re finished with this program, you’re going to have not only a new perspective... but a set of tools and insights that will allow you to meet and connect with the man you want, and start things off right.It’s very important to note that this program is NOT going to show you how to manipulate a man, or hide your true self in order to “snag” a man. It saddens me that there is so much advice floating around out there right now preaching these types of tactics... and my personal belief is that they do more harm than good. Instead, I want to show you how to express your true self to your man from your first encounter... so he sees exactly why you really are the special woman he has to be with. What Most Women Don’t Know About Dating A Man… And The Easy Way To Build A Foundation For A LifetimeOf Love & Happiness... Even more importantly, we’re going to talk extensively about DATING, and the “dating process”.Did you know that even though lots of women can’t stand dating, most men LOVE IT.And do you know what this is… or what to do about it?It’s not uncommon for most women to want to SKIP the “dating” phase with a man completely... and jump right into a committed relationship – even if it hasn’t been VERBALLY agreed upon.I mean when you know, you know... right?Well... not always.The problem with skipping the dating and “getting to know” phase is that by doing so, you are also skipping out on building a strong FOUNDATION for a loving, lasting relationship… and helping the man you’re with be on the same page with you and “go there” with you.If you’ve ever experienced one of those “whirlwind” romances where the two of you began spending every waking hour together almost immediately after you met... then you probably know that relationships that begin in this manner often burn out just as fast as they start.It’s kind of like building a house using popsicle sticks and Elmer’s glue rather than wood, screws, and nails...Sure, it will work for a short time, and look and feel great. But if you don’t use the right elements in the building phase to support and hold it all together… it’s bound to fall apart. Sooner rather than later.The good news is that starting off together the right way if you want the opportunity for your new romance to GROW and LAST can be just as exciting, fulfilling, and FUN for you and for a man... and I want to show you how.By the time you finish going through the material in this program, you will know the exact steps and specific techniques to design your perfect relationship from the ground up from day one... and have a BLAST doing it.If you want to know exactly WHAT to do with a guy you are dating to move the relationship in the direction you choose… know WHEN he is ready to move forward… and HOW to talk and act around him to draw him closer to you... then this is the program for you.And actually... that’s just the start...Here are a few more of the exciting things you’ll discover inside: The #1 MISTAKE women make that completely “creeps” a guy out when they start dating…and how just understanding why it happens completely TRANSFORMS your relationships with a man and makes him want to pursue YOU “Backleading” — An easy way to show a man exactly where YOU want the relationship to go… while still allowing him to feel like he’s “the man” (This is THE KEY to getting what you want---and what you KNOW is best for both you---without getting any resistance from him) How to close the gap between just “hanging out” and a REAL relationship (Many women end up looking “naggy” or DESPERATE when trying to get closer to their man… and in the process end up scaring him off. Here’s how to increase the strength of your connection in a way that gets him EXCITED about having a more serious relationship with you) A dangerous mistake women make that SCREAMS “neediness” to a man… and is often the single biggest thing that keeps him from making a verbal commitment to you The ONLY 3 reasons why a man doesn’t call back (Here’s how to pin-point exactly why a man you hung out with didn’t call… and what to do in the future to practically guarantee he calls) Learn the SECRET REASON why men tell you they care about you or even act like they’re “into you”…then pull away or never follow through (Here’s how to get real honesty from a man quickly… so you’ll never again spend endless hours analyzing what went wrong) The 3 MAGIC WORDS to put at the end of any question you ask a man that will get him to “open up” to you because he wants to… not because he feels forced or manipulated Why so many women feel they have to CONVINCE a man to have a “real” relationship with them…especially after being intimate (I’ll show you the secret to having a committed, mutually loving relationship happen naturally… without any special effort or strain on your part) How many women keep themselves from meeting the man they want without even knowing it (These are things a woman’s best friends are often AFRAID to tell her… but it’s important that I shoot straight with you to ensure that nothing holds you back from experiencing true love with the man you want) How to get a guy to want to PROVE TO YOU that he is the right guy for you (This secret not only gets a man to pursue you… but also shows you what he’s all about quickly… so you’ll never make the mistake of spending time with a man who isn’t meant for you) The 3 best ways to ensure you are consistently GROWING in your life (When you do these things you’ll project an almost magical “aura” about you that magnetically attracts QUALITY men to you while at the same time scares the manipulative losers away) The 10 ARTIFICIAL reasons women use to prevent themselves from meeting “the one” (Sadly nearly all of the women who haven’t met the man of their dreams experience one or more of these self-limiting beliefs… and it’s important that you learn what they are and ELIMINATE THEM if you really want love to come into your life) How to keep from losing your composure around a man (I’ll show you what to do if it does happen… but more importantly how to avoid it and “keep your cool” in those tough situations) What to do if you believe you’re not “lovable” or that men don’t find you attractive A dangerous yet all-too-common mistake women make that makes even the “nicest”, most interested guy fear that you are too CLINGY and NEEDY for him A man’s “relationship terminology” defined – Here’s what he REALLY means when he says, “We’re dating”, “hanging out”, or “committed” (The truth may surprise you, but it’s important that you know this if you ever want to REALLY understand men) How a man’s relationship “timeline” works – I’ll show you what’s going through HIS mind during all of the different “stages”… and how long each one should last so you don’t make the mistake of either “rushing it” or staying “too casual” and having him take you for granted The verbal mistakes women make when talking about commitment with a man that make you come off as DEMANDING and hard to please 6 signs that you are moving TOO FAST for a man (If you see one of these warning signs you must slow down immediately or you risk scaring him away forever…) When you should and when you shouldn’t worry about a man calling you after a date (Here’s what’s going through HIS mind afterwards and how to know exactly what to expect so you don’t worry without reason) How a guy can tell if you have a good single life and are a QUALITY woman just by the way you answer the phone! A secret that gets a guy to think about you when you’re not around… non-stop! Why men often LIE or tell “half truths” about their current relationship status or where they are at or what they want with you (A lot of men are going to be upset at me for “exposing” this one… but it’s important that you know why men do this) What LIMITS you should and shouldn’t give a man during each stage of the dating process in order for things to go smoothly How to use “reverse psychology” in a non-manipulative way that gets your man to give and love you more A creative and ULTRA-EFFECTIVE way to approach a man you want to meet… then turn things around and get HIM pursuing YOU! (This is the single best way to meet a new man I’ve ever seen or heard because it allows you to approach him without looking desperate or “needy”… and it works nearly every time) The number one ENEMY of attraction… and how to avoid it (This trap is very easy to fall into during the early stages of being with a man and will lead him to think you are BORING and REPLACEABLE… but fortunately it’s easy to avoid when you know what it is…) A big mistake many women make that they THINK will get a man to come up and start a conversation with them… but actually makes him look elsewhere A big mistake women make with their BODY LANGUAGE that makes a man think you are “needy” even when you are not! How to clear your mind of past relationship FAILURES that could cause you to over-analyze and mess up your current relationship How to get him back! (If everything seemed fine, yet your man suddenly pulled away, here’s how to find out what you accidentally did to scare him… and how to easily correct it) Would you be shocked to find out what your “ex” really thinks of you? If you’ve found yourself in a string of unfulfilling, “short-term” relationships, chances are your man was thinking THIS about you (Understanding WHY will not only change how you view yourself in a relationship… but also change how MEN view you) How to get rid of any DOUBT and UNCERTAINTY you are feeling so that a man will see you as emotionally STABLE and a GREAT CATCH (This step-by-step strategy puts you in control of choosing the right long-term partner and not just ending up with someone who is just “ok” for you) Wouldn’t it be annoying to you if a man expected you to have sex with him before he ever said a word to you? Well guess what… there is a mistake WOMEN make that gives a man this same “Eww” feeling, although it has nothing to do with sex. Here’s what it is, and why so many women do this without even knowing it… How to get a man’s attention and interest, whether you’re already “friends” or you’ve just met A simple way to get a man eating out of the palm of your hand that has NOTHING to do with sex that you can use TONIGHT to make your man crazy for you! How to know when to sleep with a man to ensure that he will KEEP WANTING YOU so much that he can hardly stand it (This is actually surprisingly easy to gauge and will ELIMINATE the FEAR that he will not call you after you are intimate with him) How to make a man fall in love with you (Here’s how to take it to “the next level” and get through that critical moment that is often the difference in a man falling in love with you or “moving on”) How to recognize when a man wants a relationship from you or just wants sex (Here’s how to avoid wondering and KNOW FOR SURE, every time) How to show a man that you are relationship material in a way that gets him not only to SHARE his feelings with you and tell you exactly how he feels and what he is thinking (the best part is you can start doing this RIGHT NOW, even if you have already begun a relationship) How to get a level of honesty and affection from your man that you have never experienced before (Do this to get him to EASILY share his deepest feelings with you, and see you as his confidante that he wants to share EVERYTHING with. Sadly women who DON’T know this are setting themselves up for dishonesty from the get-go…) A MAN’S MIND DECIPHERED. Find out the ONLY true thing a man wants in a relationship (and what he really wants from you). If you’ve ever wondered why a man is with a certain woman and NOT YOU, I guarantee the other woman is making him feel this way. Understand this simple technique and he will give you an amazing level of love and appreciation (The best part: You can apply this to “winning him back” too) Special Guest Presenters Spill Their Very Best Kept Secrets... I’m also going to have several female guests who are real-world EXPERTS on this topic of how to find the right man - from a woman who has personally coached and helped hundreds of women to create the life and love they want... to a woman who has been called the “dating coach to the stars”, and more...Here’s just a small sample of what you’ll learn from my AMAZING guests: Exactly what to do when a guy gives you his business card and tells you to call him (Here’s how to turn things around so HE calls you first!) If you are doing this, then you are doing yourself a great disservice. Let go of this one simple idea that ties you to singleness and you open yourself up to the TRUE AND POWERFUL possibilities of love. What to do if you had a bad relationship with your father that is affecting your current relationships with men An all-too-common and powerful MENTAL BLOCK women experience that almost forces them to attract only immature men (This one thing could be the only reason why you haven’t found the perfect man for you… here’s how to eliminate it QUICKLY) By practicing this daily, you will improve your life 100%. It’s easy and fun and will make your life pleasant (and makes you IRRESISTABLE). How to smooth out the “rough spots” and awkward feelings that come after a fight or an argument with your man (If you’ve ever struggled with a difficult relationship, it’s CRUCIAL that you know this word-for-word phrase that makes your love and connection instantaneously stronger) How to meet a man in three minutes! (Use this secret to let him know you are available with NO risk of rejection) How to compliment a man in a way that makes him APPRECIATE YOU instead of thinking he “has you” and can take you for granted The 2 things you must NEVER compliment a man on if you want him to respect you An amazing secret stolen from those who are “naturally” great communicators you can use to create a STRONG connection with a man within the first 5 minutes of meeting him (Don’t be surprised if he actually comments on how well the two of you get along!) The ONLY type of phone call you can make to your guy until you are in a serious relationship with him (If you want to cut your risk of rejection to almost zero and come off as the amazing and confident woman that you are, it’s important that you know this) Two surefire ways to qualify him and know exactly whether or not he is THE ONE for you (Here’s how to find out immediately if he will be a great partner with 100% accuracy… or instantly discover if he is the type that will only hurt you down the road) How To Tell If This Program Is For YOU If you’re ready to get behind the wheel and take control of your own personal love and happiness instead of merely “settling” for what life happens to throw at you... then I CANNOT WAIT to get this program in your hands...While the material inside is designed to help any single woman meet and attract the man that they want... if you’d like to accomplish any of the following, then this program is SPECIFICALLY for YOU: If you want your special man to know that YOU are also the right woman for him If you want to know how to get past those early stages without taking any chance of scaring the right man away If you want to learn specific techniques and strategies for meeting men that let him know instantly that you are a “catch” If you want to be sure that he enjoys his time with you… to the point where he becomes addicted to being around you If you are sick and tired of dating the same losers and men who turn out to be low quality, and are ready to meet the RIGHT man and settle down If you want to spend the rest of your life in the arms of a man you love with all of your heart instead of alone wondering “what could have been” If you want to spend the rest of your life in the arms of a man you love with all of your heart instead of alone wondering “what could have been” If you’ve made up your mind to accomplish these things then I am proud of you for making the decision to create a more fulfilling love life for yourself… and I can’t wait to show you just exciting it is about to become! Here’s What You’re Going To Get…  Over 6 full hours of digitally recorded material on 6 CDs (audio) An accompanying workbook full of teaching slides and aides A detailed track listing for quick access A sturdy 3-ring binder to hold all of your CDs/DVDs, workbook, and other materials   What you will have after going through Meeting The One is simple:A very clear understanding of how to meet, attract and create a fun, magical, exciting situation with the right man for you that you can easily grow into the most open, loving, and honest relationship you’ve ever had.I’m guessing that all of your life you’ve had the feeling in the back of your mind that there was a “right man” out there… and that one day when the time was right you would meet him and your life would be more filled with love and joy than ever before.And every time one of your past relationships has come to an end, there’s probably some reassurance that comes from knowing that even though things went downhill in your last particular situation, life rolls on and there is still love and life out there for you to discover. But I also realized that as time has passed, you might be beginning to have some doubts. And maybe you're worried that you might NEVER meet this man... and that it's too late for you.These are tough thoughts to come to grips with… but I feel it’s important that you understand WHY you’re having these fears and doubts in the first place…I’m willing to bet that the reason you may have doubted that the right man for you is out there is that in the past you’ve gone about finding him, meeting him, and attracting him in completely the WRONG WAY.More to the point… I’m 100% certain that once you learn the BETTER WAY… you will not only believe that he is out there with absolute certainty… you will KNOW IT FOR 100% FACT and you will both enjoy your life a whole lot more… and start having a more fulfilling and exciting time creating your future love life.Once you do you start to learn how to bring the right man and the right situation into your life FOR YOURSELF, the reality is that he won’t be “out there” any more.The right man will be RIGHT THERE WITH YOU. I Believe That You Are Just Inches Away From Meeting Mr. Right And Allowing Love To Come Into Your Life I wouldn’t be surprised if the right man for you is within a 10 mile radius of you RIGHT NOW. Maybe he is even wondering when he’s going to meet a great woman like YOU this very second. Maybe you already know him, but you haven’t connected yet.Find him. Make it happen. Time waits for no one. And it’s time for you to stop dreaming and actually be with the man you want and live the life and relationship you know is possible. Your Friend,Christian CarterP.S. Many women will go their entire lives without EVER even meeting the perfect guy for them… or worse… they meet him then scare him away. You’re about to learn the exact strategies and specific techniques to not only meet the RIGHT man for you… but show him that YOU are the fantastic woman that HE has been waiting for. I can’t tell you how many women have told me that the information in this program has been the thing that made EVERYTHING come together for them… and allowed them to finally meet the man of their dreams, and I want YOU to be next. Click on the link below, and make it happen for yourself today: P.P.S. This program will be shipped to you in a PLAIN BOX for your privacy.   Watch Real Women Talk AboutWhat They Learned FromThe Material In This Program…  Read What Others Have To Say…(These have been edited and names changed to initials for privacy) “ I realize that the relationship that I have been in for the last three years has been a textbook example of the lessons presented here. What Christian Carter said men do and say and how they act and react has been exactly and precisely how he has behaved - even so far as using the exact same words to express himself, his needs and desires and wishes. He was not unique. If only I had the opportunity of this seminar experience BEFORE this relationship experience... ” – P.B., Washington D.C. “Christian Carter has saved me! He has pulled back the curtain and revealed the world of men to many women and he has made me have many moments of saying, “ah ha”, so that’s what he meant. He has got me prepared to go out into the world of dating and mating with much more insight and tools to live a better life with the man I can’t wait to meet! This program on dating was real eye opener and of “real life” tips on how to meet men, where to meet them and what to do once you found them. It has opened up a new world. One I feel more confident to navigate. Thanks Christian! ” – D., California “ The insights that I received from this program were learning to overcome those things that have happened in the past, not to keep repeating over and over in my head how I could have taken care of the last situation, and just moving on from that point on. Also of interest to me was learning to step outside of myself. Go outside of my comfort zone and try experimenting with some of the things like flirting, showing some of my sensuality and sexuality, which I don’t think I’ve very much of recently. One of the very first things I’m going to do is look at the part on how to flirt and I’m going to start practicing with the men I work with, who I’m basically very comfortable with and I think I could get away with some of that, but take it a little further and maybe go some places I’ve never been before and just start seeing and meeting with some men I’ve never met before. And anybody looking for somebody must assuredly check this out, because it’s a very upbeat program. It really meets its objective. It tells you very serious, positive steps that you can take to meet that. It makes you feel good about yourself. When you’re sitting here, you don’t feel put down; you don’t feel like you’ve made irreparable mistakes. I just think that anybody can benefit from it. ” – P. “The information as shared by Christian and other guests is priceless and useful to any woman willing to improve her life and her love life. The most powerful insights I learned were how to move out of the comfort zone and apply new knowledge in my love life by taking action, and how to keep sense of self & being my own center for a fulfilling life, and how to the change of perspective about dating as a good thing is an opportunity to take my time and enjoy the process. Those essential secrets I learned… simply Wow! I can’t wait to go back home and start applying it right away ” – F., Mexico “The first part was too long for my taste. No need to stretch common place knowledge like “You need to be happy to be attractive.” Finally Christian gave some hands on advice on what men like to hear, specifying samples that can easily be used. His guest Marie elaborated beautifully on how to create your own experience. His other guest speaker Lauren was the shining highlight of teaching how to flirt in the most inspiring way. ” – B.L., Los Angeles “Before coming to this program, I was fearful about dating and relationships. I had been in a marriage for a very long time and I wasn’t sure where to begin. The greatest insight was when Christian spoke today about the keystone and about exclusivity and I felt that while he was talking about that, I was learning more about myself and how important that is whether you’re dating or whether you’re in a relationship or just falling in love with yourself again. It’s not just about meeting guys, it’s not leaving it all up to the guys, but it’s really up to you to take responsibility for that relationship that you want. ” “I want tell you, I came to Christian’s seminar last time because I wanted to fix my relationship with Willy. It was awful and he was awful and everything was wrong. I just had all this criticism of him and I knew if I could just fix him and if I could just fix the relationship then my life would work. And I walked out of the seminar and I realized that where I needed to work was within me and it was as is though when I walked out that I hadn’t change, but the whole world had changed. And I called up Willy and this whole shift had taken place in the relationship because I got how much I loved him and how much I appreciated him and all this stuff that I criticized in my head seemed to dissolve because the more I appreciated him, the more he gave me exactly what I wanted without my asking him.And I have to say, in the several months since the last seminar, our relationship has become a committed one and my whole life has taken on, it’s become purpose driven. I feel like able to transform the relationship of the women who cleans my health club and she’s become my best friend and the person who helps me clean my house invited me to come to Mexico with her. And I feel like every relationship has become magical out of what I’ve gotten out of Christian’s seminars.” And I wanted to come back to this seminar because the people here feel like my family. And it’s called Meeting The One and I feel like that’s exactly what I got out of this program. I came here thinking well I know it all, but I’m going to have a great time and you know what? I don’t know it all. And I found that I get to be in the present moment and there’s always so much more, there’s so much more to hear and to listen to and be present to and I’m walking away now like a fresh person. I can’t wait now. It’s like my life has become radiant and I’m so grateful. ” “How would I describe this program to my friend would be- I would ask her if she’s dating or maybe is in a relationship and she’s not sure about what commitment is all about, and I would basically say ‘Hey you’ve gotta check this program out because it’s not just about meeting guys, it’s about not leaving it all up to the guys, but it’s really up to you to take responsibility for the relationship that you want, and to make it happen. ” “I think using the techniques that I’ve learned are going to help my love life tremendously. I felt very excited and energized and ready to start putting some of these techniques into play. Because I know I’ve missed some opportunities along the way and if I would have known some of the techniques I that learned today, maybe I still wouldn’t be single.So I would describe this as a hands-on manual type of program. Where you can actually go into finding information and getting that information and having the techniques to actually put it into play and actually start using them and start seeing changes happen in your life because you’re using the techniques that he’s given you. I’m going to start practicing. ” – T., Arizona “I’ve been getting the newsletters and I think they’re really good. I’ve read the Ebook and I think it’s amazing. And I thought I would give this a try. The greatest thing I got is that I need to center more in myself, rather than in what happens outside me. And especially in my significant other, so I’m really glad I’m seeing that now. I can start appreciating him more for what he does, but also start giving more, like priority to the things I like to do, rather than to please him too much.It’s an amazing experience. Once in life time. It’s an after and before thing...life changing. Thank you. ” – F.M., Mexico City ©2001-2007 Catch Him Inc, All Rights Reserved. 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